skyrider Posted January 8, 2021 Share Posted January 8, 2021 Just now, Trooper74 said: Pretty much .... got a better deal 2nd time round ...... awesome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James in Brum Posted January 8, 2021 Share Posted January 8, 2021 At one time we did not have totally joint finances and paid into an account to cover shared costs. The one of us earning the more money paid more in and the one paid the less paid less in. That worked too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Richzx6r Posted January 9, 2021 Share Posted January 9, 2021 We have a Bill's account and our own spending accounts though she still tries to say I can or can't buy something which grates abit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynax Posted January 9, 2021 Share Posted January 9, 2021 Once our bills are paid and the fridge is full whatever is left is fair game, if either of us wants or needs something and the money is there we just get it, obviously under the current conditions I need and want more 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fozzie Posted January 10, 2021 Share Posted January 10, 2021 (edited) On 08/01/2021 at 19:38, Trooper74 said: She'll move in and you'll both have such amazing sex together you'll forget all about the finance thing ...... until it's too late and she's moving out with Lars the personal trainer .... .... Or! Jenny, the red haired girl on horse back .... the bitch !!!!!!! Sorry lost it there for a bit ..................... Well, that makes my case for keeping some financial separation a bit stronger It never ends well for Lars. Either he convinced them to run off and he will do the same to her. Or she played you as the evil party she needed to be saved from and he will find out at some point. But this kind of structures my view. Everyone knows or has been through a horror story. So it seems too common for me to ever give up certain liberties. Some see this as a way of keeping the exit door clear, trust issues etc. But to me, it accommodates the unexpected which can occur due to an abuse of trust. So there’s no harm in it Edited January 10, 2021 by Fozzie Spacing 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trooper74 Posted January 10, 2021 Share Posted January 10, 2021 On 09/01/2021 at 08:15, dynax said: Once our bills are paid and the fridge is full whatever is left is fair game, if either of us wants or needs something and the money is there we just get it, obviously under the current conditions I need and want more Thats pretty much how we used to be ... before, suddenly, without warning ..... we had 4 children ..... now the money just drains through the colander on a daily basis ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynax Posted January 10, 2021 Share Posted January 10, 2021 3 hours ago, Trooper74 said: Thats pretty much how we used to be ... before, suddenly, without warning ..... we had 4 children ..... now the money just drains through the colander on a daily basis ... Luckily we have only cats but the little buggers are still just as demanding 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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