Advice please
My boyfriends motorbike was stolen awhile back days back - he worked super hard for it and it absolutely crushed him. Things weren’t great for his mental health then, but they’ve definitely slipped even more so now.
I’m not in a bad place financially so I lent him some money for a new bike and made sure he was kitted out with security - tracker, locks, and alarms.
Since he’s got this new bike he has wanted nothing to do with it. It’s like his passion is completely gone. It has just been chained and covered up in the back garden. He is still taking public transport to work also. Before this happened he was absolutely bike mad, wanted to be an instructor in a few years, wanted to do up project bikes etc. It used to drive me mad, but now I just want the old, motorcycle-loving him back.
The police gave a telephone number for victim support, I’ve tried to talk to him about calling it but he won’t have any of it.
I just want to make him happy again and bring back his passion. I tried to look into signing him up for those blood bike volunteers, but you need to be 25+, he is 22, also his license only allows him to go up to 500cc.
I know time will heal everything but I know the type of bloke he is - he does need a push. Is there anything motorcycle related out there I could push him into? Or possibly anything in general that I could do to make this better for him?
thank you.
