why laugh???? god im as fat as a fat thing and get ridiculed at work,but it really aint what you look like whats important in the big life thing is it,its how you are as a person,ok looks generally are 90% of a first date,but this decreases rapidly the more dates you have,i reckon once you have had 6 dates,looks aint what people are looking at,its the person,and if your a kind,considerate person then you will go far thats why im such a catch so i tell the gf lol keep in there and just enjoy life,it will happen,it just seems longer if you chase it.