If it's any consolation, my dad never paid a f'cking thing towards me, and mum worked her arse off! The CSA are a joke well done for your mum, i wouldent mind so much if this women had a job and the dad chipped in and supported the kids, thats fair! but she has used every excuse in the book to do sod all, racking in loads of benefits and living life of luxury (4 bed council house nice area) whilst we are desperately trying not to lose our home, all we both do is work are arses off to support her going to the pub every evening and having loads of tattoos done stuff like that, its not fair, my poor kids get nothing as we have no money,