If they are now a women then yea, it's "pint please darlin'". If they are now a male it is "mate". Not difficult. Personally, I would not wish to be referred to as any gender neutral pronoun. However they do have their place. Hermaphrodites for example. They are neither male or female (biologically speaking) yet when they are born, male or female must be put on their birth certificate. There is currently no option for "neither" or "both". Yeah but telling people to use the neutral term for EVERYONE just to be safe is beyond offensive and idiotic. Just try to imagine applying the same logic to anything else Hey Joe, pass me a spanner! No, not the philips head spanner. The other spanner! No, not the hitting nails into the wall spanner. The spanner spanner! NOOOO not the sharp spanner for cutting wires! THE SPANNER SPANNER