I feel exactly the same. Your solution is to marry a man who does like putting tents up (like I did haha!), or just get over it, and enjoy camping with a big group, getting rather twatted and having a real laugh ! We (and by we I mean my husband and likely some others who are camping!) will help you put your tent up and take it down for sure And dear god, don't forget the underlay like I did when camping at BMF this weekend just gone - SO....VERYYY....COOOOLD! Hahaha, I'm not into the whole guy on guy thing, not that I'm against it just not my cup of tea I'll see what it's like driving with a tent on the back, I can pick a 2 man tent up for next to nothing anyway so I can bin it after anyway Seriously considering it though When is the latest I can let you know stu??