Also just for the record. What's with the Catholic baiting? It's strange and still a sad part of Our society that we all seem to have the inbuilt ability to suddenly turn into orange men. Reiterate the above. We do have good and bad amongst us in all walks of life. I class a Catholic priest as a very good friend. And the shite they have to go through now to just do their job is unreal. Yes issues were there. Probably still are but it's not just sodding Catholics. You telling me that the protestant church have no kiddie fiddlers???? But Catholics have been the easy target for centuries so why stop now eh? Why not start building bonfires and singing the famines over!!! The point about leaving your kids with people/groups etc. I found the best way was to stop with them for the first couple of times. Suss it out n make your presence felt. I also educated my 2 to be comfortable telling us anything.