Don't know I completely agree with you. I spent enough time in the US to find out that it is a very foreign country; for example, it felt - and still feels - far more different to me than Germany. The thing with the States is that, because the language is so similar, it's easy to imagine that people think in similar ways. And by and large they don't. On the other hand, the great thing about a different language is that it unlocks ways of thinking that are almost impossible in your own language, and this gives you a readier insight into the way the people think. I'm of the bent that true learning is a product of suffering and investment. Fully agree, we are separated from Muricans by language and social history, my kids grew up not knowing what a mantelpiece was and Muricans have no idea what one is either. But using English means people speak without thinking: it's the linguistic equivalent of going to McDonalds for all of your meals...because it's predictable. There's no engagement. Language is a development of the culture, so learning one means that you have to engage with the nation you're living in. I discovered stark differences between the method of speaking and attitudes depending on altitude and proximity to the sea. I'm not sure you get that when adding "y'all", "buddy" or "grits" to a personal lexicon. I only done NY. But what a peculiar place that is. I have a mate who emigrated out there in the mid 90's and the first time we went over was a huge culture shock. Backwards even. Now my mates black. Growing up where we did it made no difference at all. Live and lived in a mixed multi cultural society. Anyway. 1999 me n some of the lads go over for the Lennox v holyfield fight. Staying at said mate Julians. Land at Newark. Late and pissed . Julians crammed us all into car and we head for Jamaica Queens. Stopping only for some tinnies as it's too late to go into Manhattan. Following morning. Outside on doorstep having a cig when 2 old black woman literally trip over themselves. "Julian. 2 woman just fallen over ha ha " "Oh aye forgot to mention lads you lot the only white men in a 5 mile radius ha ha ha " Same crack over the years. Fast forward to 2003. Walking round central park with Julians daughter (my God daughter) on me shoulders you would have thought I was a fxxxxxx serial killer the looks I was getting. The most horrible segregated racist place on earth.