asharin Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Well, wouldn't have predicted that my marriage wouldn't last a year We separated back in February, which knocked me for six for a while.But now after a little time to get over it, and a little fun messing around on Tinder, I have a new girlfriend woo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grumpy Old Git Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Chin up again then.is she a 'biker' and will you both be at the Rally? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitey1984 Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Nice one, can be difficult coming out of a marriage, i was married for 6 years and my ex decided to cheat on me, i found out. Went for a drink with a girl about 4/5 months after I'd split from the ex and we've been together for nearly 3 years and are engaged. I was only looking for a bit of fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rennie Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Oh dear! glad you're ok! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joeman Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Traded her in for a younger model?Nice one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fozzie Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Separation after 1 year?Was it not a fixable problem at all?Marriages shouldn't be given up on without careful consideration is all I'm thinking. If you were just disconnecting then fair enough but if there were issues, they can always be fixed... Unless one of you is a bit of a psycho Oh well, at least life is on the up. But given you got together with this girl quite quick after a previous marriage, you should consider keeping things non serious for a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RantMachine Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 http://media.giphy.com/media/b1kgk5tYEwS9W/giphy.gif Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Epic Earl Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Glad to hear things are on the up, my first marriage didn't last 3 years. But at least I'm happier now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fozzie Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Glad to hear things are on the up, my first marriage didn't last 3 years. But at least I'm happier now When you say 1st? Which are you on now? Marriage makes no sense to me in some regards. So many people pretend it changes nothing, then when these people break up many become bitter and angry proving otherwise. Similar to this, people make plans for life prior to marriage, then something changes and they don't feel they need to after. It's an age old joke, a man will become fat and secluded to his chair in front of the TV even if he was fit and active before!For something that is just a piece of paper, it seems to do something to people Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitey1984 Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Glad to hear things are on the up, my first marriage didn't last 3 years. But at least I'm happier now When you say 1st? Which are you on now? Marriage makes no sense to me in some regards. So many people pretend it changes nothing, then when these people break up many become bitter and angry proving otherwise. Similar to this, people make plans for life prior to marriage, then something changes and they don't feel they need to after. It's an age old joke, a man will become fat and secluded to his chair in front of the TV even if he was fit and active before!For something that is just a piece of paper, it seems to do something to people Marriage does change things, whether or not it changes things for everyone probably not, my current gf and i live together, we split all bills 50/50 for the house, we share a car and i have the bike for commuting and anything that doesn't involve going to B&Q to pick up diy bits. e both have the same surname already (we checked our family history and no were not inbred, just a common surname) So when we get married it wont change much, if anything at all.My only experience is that it makes it more difficult to not have any involvement with an ex as you have to get them to sign the divorce etc, which in my case meant talking to her numerous times to get her to send the damn thing back to the court Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Epic Earl Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 I'm on my second marriage, hopefully my last! I'm the old fashioned type and believe in a marriage. Unfortunately due to the ex working at it wasn't an optionand sadly with children involved I'll have to have contact with her for the foreseable future but hey ho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KTM21 Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 we checked our family history and no were not inbredlol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rennie Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 I am in the process of getting divorced for the first time,then I intend to get married again when finances allow. Lets try to keep this thread friendly and reasonably light hearted please people! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fozzie Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 I'm on my second marriage, hopefully my last! I'm the old fashioned type and believe in a marriage. Unfortunately due to the ex working at it wasn't an optionand sadly with children involved I'll have to have contact with her for the foreseable future but hey ho I do believe it in... It's actually people I have shakey faith in.You get two sorts of people I notice, those who get married and want to slow down, and those who see it as a new beginning for something bigger. Both are valid ways of thinking, but when one or the other changes direction, it seems to send things downhill quite quickly. I wonder how I will change! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asharin Posted May 23, 2015 Author Share Posted May 23, 2015 I was willing to try and make it work. She wasn't. Cheating on me twice is one way to convince me to stop trying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GazzyG Posted May 23, 2015 Share Posted May 23, 2015 I'm on my second marriage now.Got married the first time round way too young. This time round itsw going swimmingly and couldn't ask for a better relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BikerMooFromMars Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 I was willing to try and make it work. She wasn't. Cheating on me twice is one way to convince me to stop trying You what?!?!?! Jeeeeez, better without!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fozzie Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 I was willing to try and make it work. She wasn't. Cheating on me twice is one way to convince me to stop trying Yikes She's shown you're better without though Being on the receiving end of someone having enough is rough. But better in the long run if you're level headed!If you'd called time on it, there was a bigger chance of her self-destructive nature being aimed at you.So onwards and upwards Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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