Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to hear this Phooey!I occasionally get sent to work in Bristol, next time I am there I am always happy to meet up for a cold one Defo ... one of the things I need more than anything at the moment is something to fill the void left by my entire existence being made of her. Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to hear this, mate.......but you've got to look ahead and not dwell on the past.One of my mates has just had the same thing happen to him......After nearly 30 years.....but he's joined various groups, like walking groups and the like where he's meeting a lot of other people. Check out the biker dating groups too..... Good luck mate...... Biker dating groups ... There is such a thing? Where do I find them? Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 There is definitely no bitterness there. I will always love her and never do anything to hurt her. I want to move on and enjoy the rest of my life and I want to do everything in my power to allow her to do the same. I am sad, sad beyond words, but that is not an excuse to make it difficult for her.She says that she loves me and that I am her best friend but after 20 years of being together she is no longer IN love with me and for her that is not enough. I have to say I appreciate her candour with you, and your response has been uniquely upstanding.Did you find out quite suddenly?It’s often better that way, as fighting for it only to lose it often leaves you with more pieces to pick up at the end.Dust yourself off, get on the bike, summer is coming About a week ago she dropped the bombshell. Completely out of the blue. There was no build up or arguments, it just happened. Quote
Tango Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to hear this, mate.......but you've got to look ahead and not dwell on the past.One of my mates has just had the same thing happen to him......After nearly 30 years.....but he's joined various groups, like walking groups and the like where he's meeting a lot of other people. Check out the biker dating groups too..... Good luck mate...... Biker dating groups ... There is such a thing? Where do I find them?There's a biker dating group advert that pops up on my Facebook feed every now and then......dunno if it's any good though......but may be worth a look..... Quote
eastanglianbiker Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 another one that pops up is bikermatch cant remember if its .com or .co.uk tho Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 another one that pops up is bikermatch cant remember if its .com or .co.uk tho Will take a look ... ta EABWhere's the damn like thumbs up button gone? lol Quote
Six30 Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Feel for you phooey.... Chin up and look forward to new horizons, they will come My mates sister is single..this week any way, I'll be honest she is one ugly fooker, but kind hearted. she is just having her false teeth sorted out, they got knocked out in a brawl with a bouncer., and tomorrow she is having her Elvis portrait tattoo finished on her back.. she'll be about in a couple of days if you want introducing . Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 Feel for you phooey.... Chin up and look forward to new horizons, they will come My mates sister is single..this week any way, I'll be honest she is one ugly fooker, but kind hearted. she is just having her false teeth sorted out, they got knocked out in a brawl with a bouncer., and tomorrow she is having her Elvis portrait tattoo finished on her back.. she'll be about in a couple of days if you want introducing . I like Elvis but to be honest the she is single ... this week anyway might ring an alarm bell. lolBut it made me smile.You are great bunch of guys, I appreciate all of your comments. Quote
Gin Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 You able to make any of the meets set up for this year Phooey?I know the Double Trouble Rally is down your way Quote
MrBrightside Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to hear the news chap. Hopefully you stay amicable. I have plenty of experience in this area lol, but have never been married (blessing I think). Keep yer chin up and look to new shores, they are there! Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 You able to make any of the meets set up for this year Phooey?I know the Double Trouble Rally is down your way Def going to now. Nothing to stop me. Quote
Stu Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 You able to make any of the meets set up for this year Phooey?I know the Double Trouble Rally is down your way Def going to now. Nothing to stop me. you may as well come to the forum rally keep your hands to yourself though!!! I'm taken the like button has gone awol for a bit! I have updated the forum and the like button is not ready yet Quote
fullscreenaging Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to be reading this Phooey A bit of advise though... I'd leave out the dating sites until you've got your head sorted and are not 'vulnerable' if you like. Although I'm sure there are plenty of nice normal women on these sites there are a lot of women that will f**k you up if you are not very very careful. The reason I'm saying this is that my uncle has experience of these sites Good luck bud and get yourself to a meet or two this year. I know I'm going to try Quote
Stu Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to be reading this Phooey A bit of advise though... I'd leave out the dating sites until you've got your head sorted and are not 'vulnerable' if you like. Although I'm sure there are plenty of nice normal women on these sites there are a lot of women that will f**k you up if you are not very very careful. The reason I'm saying this is that my uncle has experience of these sites Good luck bud and get yourself to a meet or two this year. I know I'm going to try I have to agree here I took a year out to myself when I split from the ex! it was the best thing I did also remember if they are fit and single they are crazy Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to be reading this Phooey A bit of advise though... I'd leave out the dating sites until you've got your head sorted and are not 'vulnerable' if you like. Although I'm sure there are plenty of nice normal women on these sites there are a lot of women that will f**k you up if you are not very very careful. The reason I'm saying this is that my uncle has experience of these sites Good luck bud and get yourself to a meet or two this year. I know I'm going to try I have to agree here I took a year out to myself when I split from the ex! it was the best thing I did also remember if they are fit and single they are crazy Oh I'm with you here ... please don't take this the wrong way guys, especially the ladies, I am not going to be looking for love ... I will be looking for companionship, friendship, sex! But I wont be the preverbial bast*rd either ... it will be mutual or not at all. Quote
fullscreenaging Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Well l'lI lay my cards on the table then. I'm not having sex with youI hope we can still be friends though Quote
Gin Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 I can't even imagine how you must feel at the moment after such a long relationship but I just hope you can find as much happiness as soon as possible What ever form it comes in.. Break ups can be hard as hell and I know my mum never went back to dating after she split with my father.. But she has great friends groups and is always out and about Glad to see her smiling.. We'll be here for you all summer at the very least for meet ups! I agree with Stu, the Rally is the one to be at but I'll sure be bombing about over this biking season; I hear Weston-super-mare has a great biking scene Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 Well l'lI lay my cards on the table then. I'm not having sex with youI hope we can still be friends though Just give me a moment while I cross you off my list ... there you go.Yep still friends. Quote
eastanglianbiker Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Sorry to be reading this Phooey A bit of advise though... I'd leave out the dating sites until you've got your head sorted and are not 'vulnerable' if you like. Although I'm sure there are plenty of nice normal women on these sites there are a lot of women that will f**k you up if you are not very very careful. The reason I'm saying this is that my uncle has experience of these sites Good luck bud and get yourself to a meet or two this year. I know I'm going to try I have to agree here I took a year out to myself when I split from the ex! it was the best thing I did also remember if they are fit and single they are crazy are there many who are not crazy single or not Quote
soll Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 phooey sad news,sometimes good relationships just implode without warning, your missus is probably hurting as much as you are... 20 years is along time and shit you guys defo gave it a go.on the bright side, when most people are in a rut you have to climb out and brush yourself off, only to realise that the grass is not greener....time is a healer, give each other space, go have some fun, do some touring.....friends, if you need any you can have mine im bored of them beers and cheers, my employer is in kidderminster and im gonna be that way a few weekends this year so beers....being an old port town/city of bristol i doubt the sex part of your objectives will be a problem.just being an old duffer relationships these days dont seem to last forever like in olden days or until one dies... why is that iyt cant be the fact that people dont get on..... is it beause people would rather believe the hype of happily ever after .. or am i just being daft....phooey head up and look forward, at least you can look at womens boobs without have death rays beamed into the back of your head. Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 phooey head up and look forward, at least you can look at womens boobs without have death rays beamed into the back of your head. Another one of those unique qualities of hers ... she never worried about me looking or even flirting as long as I didn't touch, which I never would. She was without a doubt the best thing in my life.But, as you say, she is prob hurting just as much and hopefully time will make her realise that. I won't hold my breath just in case though. I won't look good in blue! Quote
Phooey Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 You able to make any of the meets set up for this year Phooey?I know the Double Trouble Rally is down your way What is this Double Trouble rally and when? Quote
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