NeilM

He'll yes. She had bigger balls than any labour pm Thought you'd know by now Bender, any thing politics thats not Labour is a no no and your a gammon if you disagree . Can you not question anyones gender these days...

And I'll wager that if you'd got your milk back then you'd have gone on to get a Mod gig by now! Thatcher now there was a woman. You sure?

You're defined as some Lefty Communist now Neil! Same as me! Odd thing is that to the right wingers I'm a Lefty Communist......but to the Lefty Communists/Corbynistas I'm a Blairite or a Red Tory! You're defined as some Lefty Communist now Neil! Same as me! Odd thing is that to the right wingers I'm a Lefty Communist......but to the Lefty Communists/Corbynistas I'm a Blairite or a Red Tory! quote=XTreme post_id=1155531 time=1603798623 user_id=14934] Ohh. Im not a gammon then. Well I'm white and loud but not right wing... You're defined as some Lefty Communist now Neil! Same as me! Odd thing is that to the right wingers I'm a Lefty Communist......but to the Lefty Communists/Corbynistas I'm a Blairite or a Red Tory! Yeppers @NeilM is a red under the bed Never under the bed. Open and proud card carrying member

You love me really, ya daft taff

Ohh. Im not a gammon then. Well I'm white and loud but not right wing...

What the xxxx a gammon?

Dexter says alright kidder Dexter says alright kidder

With the unmarked ones. Be very wary of anyone riding fast but smooth wearing a white helmet..... Always check the helmet..

Strange that. I see a fair few NI reg plates over here and for sale in the smaller dealerships. So i assumed it was cheaper to buy over there and import. Also bear in mind. Depending where you live in NI you then have the journey home through some of most potholled roads in the UK...LOL

They've had it a good few year now. They show it at motogp etc. But yes. They do have some very quick bikes. Especially the unmarked ones. We had a busa as well.

Hello and welcome

Its for Monday

Every time I went to Bridlington......think it was in 1988 and 1990, there were always bloody caravans everywhere. I can also remember staying in Goole.....but I think that's further south. Cracking roads around there. But they can catch you out....... The road from our van to [mention]Stu[/mention] house is both quick and challenging. With scenery chucked in for good measure. 5 mins out of Brid you are in the country back roads.

I'd have met you in hornsea but I'm going home in the morning. Next time heading over here give us a shout

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I certainly didn't notice anything Neil! (ok there was beer involved so I probably didn't notice much anyway ) I'm available to talk too if anyone feels the need! Although I do have a fear of saying the wrong thing and possibly making things worse! I definitely won't put myself forward for talking to people, Def don't call me, it's not that I don't like talking I do, just not really to other people, it just never seems to go the way it's supposed to in my head. Bizarrely i suppose. I am a level 2 mental health first aider now. Whatever the fxxx that means. Through work. I guess my plant manager thought i was maybe the best person for the job..... ha haha. See I'm the other way. I have verbal diarrhea. To the point where my own Dr tells me to shut up!

Nobody's issues are insignificant to them though. A lot of people's problems stem from an initial issue which to the outside world appears really minor. But for them its a major problem/worry which escalates in their head. There's a saying "have you been shot? Are you dying" If the anwers no. You are told to crack on...... But we dont live in them times anymore and i think as a society we need to realise that for whole generations we created a mental health time bomb. And yes I've used the exact question as stated.. so even those who are now preaching openess are also to blame.

One of the things i struggle with is this: Do other people know i have issues? Is it obvious? Etc etc. Just symptoms of a little paranoia but can become quite debilitating at times. But then you hide it for years. Which ofcourse makes it worse. Since being relatively open about it (i certainly don't shout it from the rooftops) i have found it so much easier. On another serious note. If anyone does wish to talk. Im not difficult to get hold of and are more than willing to help in any way.

Fxxx me Mark. At work n blubbing. As someone who has been in your company and met your family. You did alright kidder...

What was it that caused that Neil? It was a couple of things mate. Firstly had a strange entry to the world. Abandoned/adopted etc. (Life very different back in the day as we know) Then in my late teens i got shot ha ha ha ha which didn't help matters. It was really a culmination of several episodes from birth to my mid 20's which were never dealt with. It all came to a head a few year back. Opened up. Saw my gp. Informed my work who were fantastic and put me through some intense CBT and other counselling. Funny thing was for the first 3 month of counselling i still thought everything i did/thought was perfectly normal. One of the ways things manifest itself with me is i have OCD in certain situations. My first counselling session. I re rearranged this poor womans wall pictures to get them straight and re routed her wiring for the plugs etc..... Couldn't xxxxxxing write it. Perfectly normal. Finished with the counselling 18 month back. Still have some odd behaviour and thoughts at times but i have strategies to deal with them now. Bizarrely though... I am a qualified mental health first aider..... So it goes to show even though you know what you should be doing, doesn't mean you can do it.

I'll add my experiences. As some know one of my kids went through a really bad time about 12 months back. Unfortunately all child services were shut down due to covid in March. We as a family struggled like hell to keep them on an even keel. But it worked. Just. We found structure helped. No school. So what you're up at 7 am latest etc. Fortunately when the services re opned they were already at a point mentally where help could be given. Now me..... So for those who now me personally. This may be suprising but im on the happy pills. I suffer from and was relatively recently diagnosed with PTSD. There said it. Never knew i had it. Thought it was perfectly normal to feel like i did. Get help. Nowt to be ashamed of. I should have done it 20 years ago....lol Thing is. I'm still a dick at times but a far happier one and much more stable.

What im saying is. Theres a massive difference here to home in the way people are behaving. When were first allowed to travel back at start of july they didn't have a clue with social distancing etc But now they seem more switched on than anyone

Serious observation here. Tescos at home. Maybe 70% have masks on. Tescos hornsea. 100% wearing them... Makes you think Well trained over here you see! Thats code for not full of selfish pricks Agree. Feel safer here than home.

Am here now...lol Nipped over last night for a couple of days. Grace is online lessons this week. Presently drinking gin because i have middle class illusions Get back to your homeland instead of spreading this crap about Serious observation here. Tescos at home. Maybe 70% have masks on. Tescos hornsea. 100% wearing them... Makes you think

Heard it called allsorts. But never ever a royal borough...lol Don't you start with your lip otherwise I will buy you a breadcake next time you're here Am here now...lol Nipped over last night for a couple of days. Grace is online lessons this week. Presently drinking gin because i have middle class illusions